老餅范

It's stupid to think back to the past.

But it's real that, if I haven't got married, haven't got any kids, I couldn't imagine how my life would be now.

It's what I think and feel. Every step in our life, every, do means something, big or small, crucial or trivial; but it means something.

So, going back to so many years ago. If I hadn't gone to Beijing with Yee Fun (at that time she's my girlfriend), then I wouldn't have been unemployed, and wouldn't have been a tutor of a group of mothers, and of course, got no chance of being a teacher.


It's such a tragedy that I couldn't have been a teacher. My life will be with little colours and good memories thereafter.

I like my job, my role of being a teacher, not only because I like talking. Sometimes I like being alone, sitting around the corner and reading a book only.

But I enjoy getting my life with some youngsters. They affect me, and I affect them. Once we engage with one another, it's so interesting.

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I love Yee Fun, though we've encountered some difficulties recently. Xin Ming was not our priority and expectation and yet, his coming is a precious gift, a lovely gift from God. He's the heaviest among our kids, the happiest, and the most lovely, making us release some burden in family affairs.

I cannot deny that a man should bear more responsibility of "making" a new member to the family, cos he's taken initiative, rite?

Yee Fun has been changing and adapting a lot, that's what I appreciate it.

She's going to work part-time next month, giving up her ambitious career. She made a decision of sacrifying her career to the family.

I really owe her.

She gave birth of three, not easy huh! And giving birth is quite detrimental to her health.

Thank you Yee Fun, and gave our family the three lovely kids.