老餅范

It's so easy to say we understand someone's feelings and thoughts. It's particularly true for those to say so if he/she has acquired some knowledge and training in counselling. When we get older, it's too easy, again, to say we judge people accurately from their appearance, conversation, act, gesture, attitude...etc. Well, watch the following video clip:

http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=LfeXxkbgCVE&feature=related

I was deeply impressed from the situation which happened recently in Yee Fun's family. Kwong needed our real and urgent help, but he failed to reveal what had happened to him until several serious conversation among us. Every time when we forced him to tell the truth, he told us a bit, and then a bit, and finally everything (hope it's so). He's Christian, going to church for so many years and yet, fell into temptation and greed. He fell off, and got lost.

What's important to him then, i truly believe, is love and care, from his family members. When he broke up with his girl friend, his church leader also helped them in the process.

Money can't settle everything but yet, it ruins a lot of things. Love and care build up everything.

Ture and frank communication is of utmost importance. After we got understanding with each other, we dare to give love, care, and acceptance to the one in need.

God has His own plan, and I deeply believe so. He work out something in Kwong and our family.

It was also the first time I led the prayer with Yee Fun's family and Kwong in a crowded restaurant. We shouldn't feel shame or shy on it but we pray with joy and pride. Thank you Lord for your amazing act.